Rules of polite behavior keywords. Educational game “The ABC of Politeness, or Etiquette for Every Day. Rules of polite behavior and communication for children

14.12.2021

Svetlana Romankova

Target: to form students’ ideas about the main ethical standards and cultural communication skills, to educate children politeness and friendliness, respect and sensitivity towards other people.

Epigraph of the lesson: “The person who embarrasses the least number of people has good manners.” (D. Swift)

Game motto: “Look after yourself always and everywhere. Remember, you are among people!”

Introductory speech by the teacher.

A person lives among people. How other people treat you depends on many factors, including your inner personality traits, but people need time to get to know you.

Russian proverb says: “They greet you by their clothes”. This means that a lot depends on the impression a person makes. Appearance and behavior determine the perception of one person by another.

And the bridge connecting the inner world of a person with his inner manifestation is etiquette. When we first meet a person, we also form a certain opinion about him. We can give it all good qualities, but we may doubt something. But when we meet any new person, then, first of all, we pay attention to his manners. We call good manners etiquette.

The poet Rasul Rza compared man to the sea. Listen to his poem “The old sailor talks about the sea”.

Presenter 1:

The sea can be generous,” he said.

It can be sad,” he said.

He can be hard-hearted,” he said.

It can be desperate,” he said.

The sea can be different,” he said.

It can be clean and dirty, he said.

Mysterious and revealed

Powerful, grumpy, angry...

The sea is like a person!

As you can see, a person does not have any one quality - good or bad. A person is an ensemble of qualities. The main rule polite behavior: even if your friend doesn't deserve good attitude, norms etiquette cannot be crossed.

Educator: Let's check this statement. Let's divide into three groups. Each The group receives a task-situation that they need to role-play and then analyze their behavior.

Children are given cards with tasks.

Situation No. 1.

You must take your little sister from kindergarten. At the door you encounter two arguing women who do not allow you to pass. Time is limited. What are you going to do?

Situation No. 2.

Your friend introduces you to his friend and invites you to go for a walk. You didn’t like your new acquaintance, but you want to go for a walk with your friend. What will you do?

Situation No. 3.

You are helping an old grandmother, your neighbor: buy groceries, go to the pharmacy, etc. Your friends make fun of you all the time. How to change the situation?

The guys role-play situations and conduct analysis.

About the history of good manners.

Presenter 1: Modern etiquette inherits the customs and traditions of all times and peoples. After all, the desire to behave according to certain rules goes back thousands of years. Word « etiquette» of French origin. At one of the magnificent and elegant receptions of King Louis XIV, who had the loud nickname of the Sun King and was extremely fond of pomp, the guests were given cards listing some mandatory rules of behavior. From the French name of the cards - « labels» and the word came « etiquette» . Etiquette consists of rules, which cover behavior in in public places, forms of address, greetings, manners, clothing style. Etiquette requires a person to behave according to the situation, in accordance with the norms accepted in a given society. Concept etiquette changed in different eras, as the historical situations in which people found themselves changed.

Presenter 2: Since the 18th century, manuals on etiquette. Under Peter, a book for young people was published three times “An Honest Mirror of Youth, or Indications for Everyday Conduct”. In it after ABC and arithmetic set out the rules on how to sit at the table and handle a fork and knife, at what distance to remove a hat when meeting acquaintances, etc. Interesting recommendations about behavior in public places and outside table: “No one has to walk down the street with their head down and their eyes downcast and look askance at people, but walk straight and without bending over.” Or other: “Don’t slurp over your food like a pig, and don’t scratch your head; don’t speak without swallowing a piece, for that’s what the ignorant do. Frequently sneezing, blowing your nose and coughing is not good.” The book also gave moral advice. It was recommended, for example, “it is a great honor to support father and mother”. If a father called his son, it was considered decent to respond So: “What do you want, sir, father?” or "What do you order me, Sovereign". Impolite the following were relied upon answers: “What, what, what, what do you say you want?”. Etiquette was directly related to moral relations.

Presenter 1: Of course etiquette today is far from good French manners "the sun king". But still, we note that a significant part of its rules came to us from history, and some even from ancient history. Historical development was a kind of filter that eliminated insignificant or useless rules. It left as a legacy only the most rational of them.

Educator: So, etiquette is good manners, good manners, ability to behave in society. But, as we have already said, with everyone a person needs his own line of behavior. Let's try to decide together how exactly. I will name the qualities of a person’s character and behavior, and you make suggestions on how to behave in this situation.

WITH suspicious person we behave...

Children: Carefully.

With a capricious...

Children: We don’t pay attention to whims and behave very calmly.

With a boastful...

Children: With irony.

With a shy...

Children: Confidentially, we help him get comfortable in the team.

Guys, does anyone know what the word means? « politeness» ? Word « politeness» comes from Old Church Slavonic "more mature", i.e. "expert". Be polite Therefore, know how to behave and treat others with respect. Used exclusively to people who know the rules of good manners. This means that an ignoramus is a person who does not know decency. Rules of decency have their roots deep in history. (For example, the rule to take off your hat, the rule about shaking hands).

Presenter 2: “Are your cattle healthy?” This phrase is spoken by the Mongols. Representatives of the African Zulu tribe They say: "I see you". In China ask: “Have you eaten today?” And it all means the same thing. How does it sound in Russian? We're just we talk: "Hello", that is, we wish our friend good health. At all times, it was considered the height of bad manners and disrespect for others if a person avoids a greeting and does not respond to it.

Hello!

Having bowed, we said to each other,

Although they were complete strangers.

Hello!

What special things did we say to each other?

Just "Hello", we didn’t say anything more.

Why is there a drop of sunshine in the world?

Why has there been a drop of happiness in the world?

Why has life become a little more joyful? (V. Soloukhin)

Educator: You said hello, and “life has become a little more joyful”. But sometimes you guys shout or mutter something while walking - or "Drps", not that "bry".

A game« Polite words» .

(Which of the game participants will name more polite words.)

Competition of experts etiquette.

What's happened politeness? ("Vezhe", i.e. "expert".)

Who greets first if the youngest and the oldest meet? (Jr)

You are walking down the street with a friend. He greeted a stranger and paused. Should I say hello to you too?

You entered the bus from the back platform and saw your friends standing at the front door. Should I say hello to them, and if so, how to do it? (Yes, you can just nod.)

This is probably the case with you It happens: you meet a person often, for example, on the street along which you go to school. But they don't know him. Is it appropriate to say hello in such cases? (Yes.)

By the way, who shakes hands first, the elder to the younger or the younger to the older, the man to the woman or vice versa? (The elder is the first to extend his hand to the younger, and the girl, woman, or boss is the first to offer his hand to his subordinate.)

You see, guys, your opinions differ. Some people think it’s better to do it this way, while others think it’s better to do it differently. French people They say: “The first one to say hello is the one who more polite» . Will you follow this simple rule- you can never go wrong.

A game"Mirror".

Summing up the game. Reflection.

Literature.

1. Aloeva M. A. Cool watch in grades 5-7. Rostov-on- Don: Phoenix. National project "Education", 2007

2. Severina O. A. Class hours in grades 5-7. Volgograd: Panorama, 2008

All parents would like their children to grow up to be intelligent, polite people. This means that it is necessary to educate and develop these qualities of politeness from early childhood. Of course, in society there are a huge number of rules of etiquette and ethics that make up the concept of politeness. And throughout their lives, children will have to get to know most of them. But it’s worth starting with the simplest rules of politeness, which we will now present to you in the form of a reminder. You can print it out beautifully and hang it above your child’s table so that he never forgets about them. This will be the first step in becoming future or ladies.

“Magic words”: thank you and please. Remember to say these words when thanking people or asking for something.
"Hello!" and “Goodbye!” Always say hello and goodbye to people: both adults and peers.
Don't interrupt your elders when they speak - it's impolite. If you need to say something very important and urgent, first apologize for interrupting the adult conversation.
Don't take other people's things without asking.
Do not discuss a person out loud (whether you want to say something bad or good about him). It is especially rude to discuss a person's appearance or disability.
Answer if asked. It is impolite and ugly if you do not answer questions asked of you. If you don't like a question and don't want to answer it, say so directly.
Before entering a room, it is polite to knock and enter only after permission to enter.
During a telephone conversation, you must greet, introduce yourself and say goodbye in the same way as during a normal conversation. When communicating by phone, the same rules of politeness apply.
It is imperative to respect older people, women and girls. It is necessary to help them, to let them forward.
Do not push or shove in crowded places, such as shops or transport.
Offer help and help people if they need it.
According to the rules of politeness at the table, you must behave civilly, do not fidget, do not put your elbows on the table, and do not slurp.
Don't talk with your mouth full. Use a napkin while eating.
Do not reach across the table for food, but ask those sitting nearby to pass the dish.
Thank you for any gifts.
Don't be rude to people, and especially don't swear.
Don't tease or call other people names.
or ask for forgiveness if you are guilty of something.
When coughing or sneezing, be sure to cover your mouth and use a handkerchief.
No picking your nose, biting your nails, spitting or spitting.

To begin learning the basics of politeness, these twenty rules will suffice for now. And parents should remember that no matter what rules of etiquette you instill in your children, they will still follow your example. So start with yourself.

Etiquette is a word of French origin, meaning a manner of behavior, rules of politeness, good upbringing, courtesy that must be observed in society, at work, at school, university, at the table and even on the street.

The rules of etiquette are unwritten, mandatory, that is, it is a manner of behavior accepted “by default” and observed by people as a kind of standard that is not subject to discussion. A well-mannered person must not only know and adhere to the norms of etiquette, but also understand their significance for life and society. After all, good manners are a reflection inner world a person, an indicator of his intellectual level and moral principles. You have more opportunities to develop, establish contacts, create good relationships with people around you and, therefore, achieve your goals.

Politeness from the cradle

Politeness is always and everywhere highly valued. In large cities and major cities politeness turns into a rare and valuable gift, not available to everyone. Rudeness and bad manners are becoming the norm, and this does not surprise anyone. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate the seeds of etiquette in the heart of a child from an early age, along with his first word and deed. Very often, parents, without knowing it, adopt the experience of their friends or the older generation. This is not entirely correct.

Every person is different, including your child. He will not understand the authoritarian and demanding attitude towards himself. Adults need to be patient and persevering in order to instill in their children politeness and courtesy. Do not force or put pressure on your child under any circumstances. Ask, be polite, and the child will happily fulfill all your requests. Repeat when talking to him as often as possible magic words- “thank you” and “please”. But the rules of politeness for children are not limited to just these words. Gradually teach him to say hello, say goodbye, and apologize. Encourage him to read, followed by a discussion of the actions of the characters in the book. Explain how to behave with people and how not to. And most importantly - always and everywhere be polite yourself. After all, a child copies the behavior of his parents and, seeing an example of etiquette before his eyes, he will try to follow it.

Etiquette from school

Having received the basic concepts of good and evil, the child moves to the next level - school, where throughout educational process he is taught the basic rules of etiquette.

Being a second home, the school sets itself the same good goals as parents. However, the rules of politeness in school should not consist only of moralizing lectures and instructive conversations.

For a deep and detailed mastery of all the canons of etiquette, teachers must conduct classes dedicated to lessons and politeness, in the form:

seminars and trainings where conversations are held on the “answer-question” principle, various situations are discussed, lines of behavior are played out, situations are modeled;
games in which participants are divided into several groups and play life situations related to etiquette standards.

Such original methods, as a rule, are effective and efficient; they help to identify the level of politeness of each student, teach children mutual understanding, and norms of behavior in a particular situation. Schoolchildren easily and quietly learn the rules of politeness and the examples set by senior mentors, becoming more open and sociable.

You need to say hello correctly

Correct and skillful greeting is one of the immutable norms of etiquette. You need to greet people in a welcoming, friendly manner, smiling openly. The rules of politeness when meeting people are as follows: try to look them straight in the eye, speak clearly and clearly, and the tone of your address should be soft and courteous. The greeting is usually accompanied by the words: “Hello” (address to friends and close acquaintances), “Hello” (universal address), “ Good morning(day, evening)” (depending on the time of day).

What not to do

The rules of etiquette have their own “veto”, that is, prohibited actions that can expose you

You should not address a person with the exclamation “Hello!”, “Hey, you!”
Having seen an acquaintance, you should not desperately make your way to him across the entire room, causing inconvenience to the rest of those present.
When meeting acquaintances in a theater or restaurant, you should give them a slight nod as a sign of greeting, and not shout to the whole neighborhood.
If you meet an acquaintance on the street, do not detain him for a long time; it is better to arrange the next meeting or telephone call.
It is not recommended to pat a stranger on the shoulder when greeting him.

Who greets whom?

Who should say hello first? The basic rules of politeness in this case boil down to the following. The first one to say hello:

man with woman;
subordinate with boss:
junior (by age, rank, position) with senior;
entered the premises;
walking with the standing one.

In any case, polite and well-mannered people are the first to say hello.

Address as a formula of etiquette

The rules of politeness also affected the forms of people addressing each other. There are three forms of appeal:

There are no clear rules on how to switch from “you” to “you”; this is established by the interlocutors themselves, or is present in the form of address by ill-mannered people who are accustomed to saying “you” to everyone indiscriminately.

Table etiquette norms

The rules have been in place for many years and centuries. They are the same for one and all, be it a builder or a president.

The first and immutable rule is that you must not spread or place your elbows on the table. It is forbidden to slurp and talk with your mouth full, especially on a romantic date.

You should sit upright, without leaning on the table or chair of the guest sitting next to you. It is considered indecent to drum your fingers on the table, desperately gesticulate, throw up a napkin or cutlery, take food from someone else’s plate, or talk loudly.

The rules of politeness and etiquette that should be observed at the table also prohibit blowing on hot food, leaning over the table, talking on the phone, singing, whistling, putting on makeup and putting on powder. The man pays attention to the woman sitting to his right: he entertains her with conversations, puts snacks on her plate, refills her drinks.

General rules of politeness

In addition to generally accepted norms of etiquette regarding greetings, address, cultural rules

at the table, there is a general rule of politeness, the observance of which speaks of you as a well-mannered person who monitors his manners and behavior.

Don't fuss, do everything calmly and measuredly.
Try to speak quietly, clearly, clearly, without muttering, obscene expressions or swearing.
It is not recommended to scratch yourself in public, pick your nose, or wear lipstick.
Control your emotions, be cool, and put your words into graceful forms and expressions.
Don't laugh too loudly or at people passing by.
Don't yawn with your mouth wide open.
Keep your promises.
Apologize, say hello, use “thank you” and “please.”
Watch your appearance.
Don't discuss people in their absence.
Address strangers in a polite and courteous manner.

Smile is the main rule of etiquette

A smile is a powerful weapon for any person, capable of changing everything and everyone. It's like a ray of sunshine in cloudy weather, a drop of water in the desert, a piece of warmth in frosty weather. Her Majesty “Politeness”, rules of behavior and etiquette - all these norms boil down to one, simplest piece of advice - smile. A smile is not only a tribute to politeness, it is a lever of happiness, a recipe for success and good mood.

One smile can soften the heart, attract attention, and defuse the situation. In many businesses, smiling is a job requirement, and for good reason: it contributes to an excellent work process. Smile and you will gain a reputation as a well-mannered and cultured person!

The rules of politeness may vary according to nationality, but they boil down to one thing: excellent manners and excellent upbringing will always be “in fashion”, and no one can refuse or cancel them.

What is politeness?

Politeness is a person’s ability to communicate with other people without conflict and with respect. A polite person is pleasant to talk to, in his manner of conversation, in his manners. In general, he seems to show his interlocutor that he respects him, that he enjoys talking with him, and most importantly, that the person himself received a good upbringing.

Why is politeness so important?

Perhaps you will argue that politeness is a vestige of modern society that only the arrogant and shameless survive. Yes, of course, these are extremely necessary skills for a middle manager, for office plankton who are ready to devour each other for the opportunity to occupy a leather chair. But for some reason, sitting in the chair is a polite and calm person who can show toughness without resorting to yelling and market tricks, but instill such fear that it would be better to swear. What's the secret? The secret is the inner strength that courtesy and good manners give. Harmony with yourself is achieved through respect for the whole world, to comprehend new things, and politeness will help you with this.

How to become polite?

Politeness is not only memorized rules of etiquette, but also a person’s character. The person may put their elbows on the table, but still come across as polite and tactful. Try to follow these principles to become a polite, pleasant and positive person. And you will earn plus one to your karma.

Keep your promises. Nobody likes liars.

Listen to your interlocutor, do not interrupt him, even if you already understand him. Let the person finish his thought. You are not at the market, have respect for the thoughts of your interlocutor, let him speak.

Don't criticize something harshly a stranger. For example, you criticize vegetarianism, but your interlocutor, it turns out, does not eat meat. It can get quite awkward. You will not deliberately offend a person without even really getting to know him. So make jokes with friends, not just acquaintances.

Don't forget the magic words: thank you, please. Try to use them more often, and you will notice that those around you will change their attitude towards you.

Don’t swear, this is still an indicator of your level.

When you visit, take something for tea or a souvenir.

When you are driving, please turn off your high beams and follow the basic rules of courtesy and traffic.

Be condescending in conversation, as many people have so many opinions. If you disagree with your interlocutor, there is no need to prove that you are right, foaming at the mouth. The fact that you express your opinion in convulsions will not change your idea of the subject of the dispute, but it will be unpleasant for your interlocutor.

If you find yourself in an unfamiliar place, take a closer look at other people. They will give you an example of how to behave in this situation. There is no shame in asking if something is not clear. If you say: “Please help me figure it out,” I think anyone will answer you, and there is nothing wrong with that.

A handshake says a lot about a person. Eat a whole science dedicated to this issue. A firm handshake with a look into the eyes of the interlocutor is considered normal. If a person offers his hand as if asking, with his palm up, then he is not confident in himself. If a person offers his hand like a royal person, palm down, then he has high self-esteem and signs of a tyrant. According to old rules of etiquette, older men and women themselves offer their hand for a handshake. This is considered a sign of respect for them, meaning they have the opportunity to judge whether you are worthy of their handshake or not. So, if you are a woman or an older man, keep in mind that the interlocutor may expect you to be the first to extend your hand to him for a handshake.

Standards of politeness and etiquette

You could write a longer work than War and Peace on the topic of table etiquette. In modern society it has become a little easier, just remember the basic rules:

Rules of etiquette in modern society

if a girl wants to eat, then there is nothing wrong with telling the guy about it. After all, people often meet after work. But ordering the most expensive dishes is bad manners.
If you sat with friends in a cafe, ordered little, and your friends offer to split the bill equally, you have the opportunity to say that you did not expect to spend a large amount and pay only for yourself. If they start reproaching you, it means your friends are insincere with you.
Regarding expensive gifts, there is no clear restriction on etiquette: this can be accepted from a fan, this cannot be accepted. If you feel uncomfortable with a gift or you don’t like it, then you can return it, saying that the gift is very expensive and you will not be able to give something of equal value in the near future.

GAME EXERCISES “RULES OF POLITE COMMUNICATION”

Target: Formation in children of knowledge about the rules of polite communication and polite communication skills.

Tasks:

1. Teach children to communicate politely with peers and adults.

2. Develop creativity.

3. Cultivate politeness and courtesy in children.

Form: game exercises

Equipment: sheets with the meanings of the word "politeness", with situations, with

rules of polite communication.

Completed: teacher of the first qualification category Komarov A.V.

Progress of the event.

Introduction. Hello guys! Listen carefully to the poem that I will read to you now, and please tell me what we will talk about.

Good afternoon - they told you

Good afternoon – you answered.

How two strings are connected - warmth and kindness.

Hello - you tell the person,

Hello! – he will smile in response.

And he probably won’t go to the pharmacy,

And you will be healthy for many years.

Why do we say “thank you”?

For everything they do for us

And you couldn't remember:

Who did they tell? How many times?

What do you think we will talk about in our lesson today? (children's answers)

Today we will not just talk about politeness, but we will learn polite communication.

Main part. First, let's find out what “politeness” is? What does it mean to be polite? Let's try to derive a rule? (children's answers)

Now let's compare your answer options with the definition that the dictionary offers us and compare with our conclusion.

Politeness – Old Russian “vezha” - knowledgeable, courteous.This is observance of the rules of decency. This is the ability to behave in such a way that others enjoy being with you. Ignorance - the opposite meaning - rude, does not observe the rules of decency.

A polite person means one who observes the rules of decency, is well-mannered and courteous (information on the board).

In the everyday life of a polite person, a well-mannered person, there are always words that we call “magic”. With the help of these words, you can even restore a good mood to a sad and offended person and lift your spirits.

Game "Polite words"

Now we will find out if our guys know polite words, words used in greetings. You need to finish the rhyme together and correctly.

Invented by someone simply and wisely

When you meet, say hello...(Good morning)

The old stump will turn green,

When he hears...(Good afternoon).

Even a block of ice will melt

From a warm word...(Thank you).

When they scold you for pranks,

We say “Sorry...(Please).

If you can't eat anymore

Let's tell mom...(Thank you).

Both in France and Denmark

They say goodbye...(Goodbye).

To all of you with great love

I wish you strong...(health).

If the sun goes down,

There's gold in the trees,

We talk when we meet

To everyone I know(Good evening)

I met my neighbor Vitya,

The meeting was sad:

He's like a torpedo on me

Came from around the corner

But imagine: in vain from Vitya

I was waiting for the words(Sorry)

It will be easier for us to travel and easier to walk,

Whenever they wish(Bon Voyage)

Politeness is not just “magic” words. Politeness is also the rules of decency, the ability to behave in such a way that others enjoy communicating with you.

Let's imagine a situation where you go to visit each other for a birthday. Give advice to someone who comes to visit (children's answers).

Now listen carefully to the poem.

If you came to see your friends,

Don't say hello to anyone.

Words: “please”, “thank you”

Do not tell anybody.

Turn away and ask questions

Don't answer anyone's questions.

And then no one will say

About you, that you are a talker

Why do you think this poem is called “Reverse Advice”?

(Children answer that you need to do everything the other way around: say hello when you arrive, say the words “please”, “thank you”, answer if you are asked about something).

How polite words help I greet them, I say

How polite words help Please forgive me

I always get guests

If you don't know the person's name, please forgive me or

the one you are contacting is best. Please, tell me.

start a sentence with words

Game "Polite or Impolite." I name the situation, and you determine whether the actions in it were polite or not.

Say hello when you meet... (politely).

Push without apologizing... (impolite).

Help you get up, pick up a fallen thing... (politely).

Do not stand up when addressing the teacher... (impolite).

Get a ticket on the tram... (politely).

Don't give up your seat to an elderly person... (impolite).

Mom sent you to a neighbor to borrow some flour. How will you do this?

You want to invite your friends to your birthday party. How will you do this?

You came to the store to buy notebooks. How do you contact the seller?

Your friends invited you to the cinema, but you can't go with them because you didn't homework. How will you respond to their offer?

Analysis of situations and drawing up rules of politeness.

After work, mom cooked dinner, washed the dishes and went to wash the clothes. Dad went to the garden to water the cucumbers. And Petya sat comfortably on the sofa and began to watch his favorite program “In the Animal World.”

RULE 1

Marina was given a large set of markers for her birthday. The next day she proudly showed her gift to the girls at school. “I won’t give them to anyone while they are new,” she told her friends.

RULE 2

Kolya ran into the classroom and shouted:

Hello, Gray!

I just hit fat Svetka with my briefcase. It was funny when she fell into a puddle!

RULE 3

One day Vova went to the theater. On the tram he sat near the window and looked at the streets with interest. Suddenly a woman with a small child entered the tram. Vova looked at them and turned back to the window.

RULE 4

Natasha has many friends in her class. They often meet, walk, play, and do homework together. Natasha and her friends are never bored.

RULE 5

Two passers-by were walking down the street. One is 62 years old and the other is 8 years old. The first one had several items in his hands: 1 briefcase, 3 books and 1 large package. One of the books fell.

“Your book fell,” the boy shouted, catching up with the passerby.

“Really,” he was surprised.

Of course,” the boy explained, “you had 5 things, but there are 4 left.”

“I see that you know subtraction and addition well,” said the passerby, with difficulty picking up the fallen book, “however, there are rules that you have not yet learned.

What are these rules? What should the boy do?

What other rules of politeness could you add? (Children's answers)

Summarizing. This is where our event ends. What stood out to you the most? What new have you learned? What rules of polite communication do you remember?

Politeness – Old Russian “vezha” - knowledgeable, courteous. This is observance of the rules of decency. This is the ability to behave in such a way that others enjoy being with you.

Ignorance - reverse meaning - rude, does not observe the rules of decency.

Polite man - observing the rules of decency, well-mannered and courteous.

Find answers to situations. Connect with lines.

How polite words help I greet them, I say

find friends for them “come in, please”

How polite words help Hello, let's go with you

put up if I offended a friend and be friends.

I want to make peace, I can say

How polite words help. Forgive me, please.

be hospitable when

I always get guests

If you don't know the person's name, please forgive me or

to whom you are addressing, it is best to be kind,

start a sentence with words

RULES OF POLITE COMMUNICATION

A polite person constantly thinks about the people around him.

Be polite to your comrades.

A polite person will not cause trouble to another person or offend him with an offensive nickname.

A polite person is attentive to people.

A polite person does not quarrel with friends, works and plays in harmony.